Desirable Status

Dear Society, 

I know that you are very eager to know about someone life, especially for girls.

Why you don't live your own life?? Did God send you to this world to ask this type of silly question? 

Like,
Why are study too much?
For whom you study?
Why u don't lear cooking?
Why are you doing Job?
When you get married? 

Wow you are married now  when you give me good news? 

Oh ur first baby became 3 years old? Why  you don't plan for second baby? 

This is our life let us decided, how long we have to study? Which age we should get married? 

It is not a crime, if girls are going to be a independent. At least she became support system to her future husband. If we have a chance to put a professional label in our name, until we are not interested to put our initial as "Mrs." 

Please live your own life and let live others too. In world there are so many problems which are bigger than our status. 

If we, the girls are single (in your sense "Unmarried"), that's not ur problem, that's our problem. If we are happy or unhappy in future, that's our decision and we never regret for this. 

So please do your work, make a gossip behind our back, because this type of people never go ahead with ungodly thought. 

U have so much time to interpret someone's life, but we are busy to build our own empire. So let us do our work. If u can't support us at least don't discourage us.

Specially to my family members. I know how much you care about us. 

મસ્તીમાં મસ્તાની ને
મોજમાં રહેવાની.
થાય એ ભડાકા કરી લો.. 

International Seminar

Hello Reader!!!

After a long long time, I am going to write another blog regarding my first Internal Seminar. 

This Internal Seminar on “Gender, Identity and Career” given by Prof. Alice Clark (Author of Valued Daughters : First Generation Careen Women) at Women’s Development Cell, GLS University on 23^rd January, 2017.

Prof. Clark said that she lived in Allahabad, Baroda and Mumbai and saw the position of the women in the society. According to her it’s the time for Devolution of Daughters. She believes that all the women choose their career for Lifetime not for few years. Women in Urban Area should educated and be career oriented. Demographic Transaction should be revocable.

In her research she found that in the year 1971-72, women’s children ratio was 2.5 to 6. In the year 1980, there are 85% men worked and only 25% women worked, irony is that this ratio is still not 50%-50%. Women were not self dependent, and there are so many vices like Dowry, Child Marriage and Son Priority etc. In the year 1990, she sees the possibilities of more Careers. Women choose the professional careers in this era and sees new climate for Qualification. She strongly said that if Ur daughter is able to have professional identity, you should proud of that.

She thought women should choose late marriage, few children and long career. It’s important change in life economy. She further said that if mother who have never professional career, professional career and liberty is Imagery, their entire plan for marriage not for career and mother never against before. Only women are born the children and sky are limit for them. 

For Indian Women, she had strongly recommended that parental encouragement is very important. Women should negotiate the things which she doesn’t like. Let the marry children with professional class. Be a profession Identity for family and be service oriented. Men must allow his wife to decision making in family.

After attending this seminar, I am very thankful for Prof. Clark. She showed mirror for us, her point regarding women’s career is very strong and commendable. Yes, we are 21^st century girls and we should learn how to negotiate. We should have professional career, we can be a decision maker.

Inglouris Nature

In this 21^st Century, all men and women worked together, women deprived all the places from men. Women works in Airline to Petrol Pump, Hotel to Small Shops. She is became CEO, Manager and Capable to handle her Business very successfully.

Notwithstanding, somewhere, sometime women have very disgraceful feeling.

I am Law Student and in college we learn about IPC (Indian Penal Code). In this Act there are some sections which are related to women and it’s so important in all the women’s life. Especially IPC Section 375, which is about Rape.

I see there are some girls who are not ready to listen and/or write about this particular section. When there are question asked about this in the exam. Some Girls are not ready to write about Rape in the answer sheet too. I asked her “why she is not written about Rape, in particular it’s related with her also”. And she gives me answer “I know it’s related to girls but I feel so Dirty and Blowzy.”

  After listening her answer I asked a question to myself, “Is she our future lawyer? If she is not ready to write about Rape in the one answer sheet, how can she help her Rape victim client in the court? How she argument in the Court?”

I assume that this things are happened in medical field and Girls Students also? But I think it is not their fault. We Girls, are usually not open-up about such a things. Girls are feeling very inglorious to talk about menstrual problem, pregnancy and sexual harassment. Nature of abash, Girls are not going to Hospital for their personal problems, they are not going to Police Station for harassment and don’t talk anything to their own mother too.

Girls have to open-up about this without any hesitation. If girls have enough knowledge to spread awareness, she must do that first. I am also one of these girls. I will not organized any event and tell girls about this. I will not go door to door to teach them about menstrual problem and I will not go to slum area to aware women about family planning.

But yes, whenever I see and meet the girls and women who need my help and I think she should be aware, I help them definitely and provide information whatever I know. 

After all, we are in 21^st Century. Isn’t We?