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જય વસાવડા એ લખેલી આ વાત સાથે આજ્ના નવા વર્ષનો આરંભ કરીએ...
ન​વું કંઇક કરવાની શરુઆત ચોક્ક્સ કરીએ, પણ તે કરતા પહેલા જે કામ હાથ માં લીધું છે, એ તો પહેલાં પુરું કરીએ... જે જ્વાબદારી માથે છે, એ તો પહેલાં પુરી કરીએ...

Life બહુ જ નાની છે Frnds!!! આમ ને આમ  Time ક્યાં જતો રહેશે કંઇ ખબર જ નહિં પડે. Time Waste કર્યા કરતાં કંઈક ને કંઈક ન​વું શીખતા રહીએ.  આપણે ઘણાં Resolution દર વર્ષે લઈએ છીએ, જે કદાચ બીજા જ દિવસે તોડી પણ દઇએ છીએ. આ વખતે નક્કી કરી લઈએ કે બસ કંઈક ન​વું શીખવું છે, પછી ભલે ને એ ટાઈ પહેરતાં જ શીખવાનું કેમ નાં હોય​?

 Life ને હસી મજાક થી ચોક્ક્સ જીવીએ, પણ એ મજાક જ બની ને રહી નાં જાય એનું ધ્યાન રાખજો. હવે આ દુનિયાં માં આવીયાં જ છીએ તો જીવન સાર્થક કરી ને જઈએ. દુનિયાં ને કંઇ ખાસ નહીં તો કમ સે કમ આપણી કમી વર્તાય કે કોઇને યાદ આવીએ એવું તો કરી શકીએ ને?

Life માં problems તો બધાને જ હોય છે. એ problems ને યાદ કર્યા કરતાં પોતાની જાતને નવું કંઈક શીખ​વામાં busy કરી દઈએ, એ કદાચ તમાંરાં problems નું solution તો નહિ હોય પણ તેનાથી  Tension તો ચોક્ક્સ ઓછું થશે ને?

તો બસ ન​વું શીખવાનું start કરી દો. જેમ મેં કર્યું. છ different subject પર blog લખ્યા પછી આ મારો સાતમો blog છે, જે આ ન​વાં વર્ષમાં ગુજરાતી માં લખ​વાની નાનક્ડી કોશિશ કરી છે.  જે મારાં માટે ખરેખર ન​વું છે. મારી આ ન​વું શીખવાની વાત અને blog કેવો લાગ્યો એ મને ચોક્ક્સ કે જો.

બસ આ સાથે જ મારી એટલે કે પલ્લવી તરફથી આપ સહુ ને નવાં વર્ષ નાં નુતન વષાૅઅભિનંદન અને સાલ મુબારક.

જય શ્રી કૃષ્ણ... 

International Seminar

Hello Reader!!!

After a long long time, I am going to write another blog regarding my first Internal Seminar. 

This Internal Seminar on “Gender, Identity and Career” given by Prof. Alice Clark (Author of Valued Daughters : First Generation Careen Women) at Women’s Development Cell, GLS University on 23^rd January, 2017.

Prof. Clark said that she lived in Allahabad, Baroda and Mumbai and saw the position of the women in the society. According to her it’s the time for Devolution of Daughters. She believes that all the women choose their career for Lifetime not for few years. Women in Urban Area should educated and be career oriented. Demographic Transaction should be revocable.

In her research she found that in the year 1971-72, women’s children ratio was 2.5 to 6. In the year 1980, there are 85% men worked and only 25% women worked, irony is that this ratio is still not 50%-50%. Women were not self dependent, and there are so many vices like Dowry, Child Marriage and Son Priority etc. In the year 1990, she sees the possibilities of more Careers. Women choose the professional careers in this era and sees new climate for Qualification. She strongly said that if Ur daughter is able to have professional identity, you should proud of that.

She thought women should choose late marriage, few children and long career. It’s important change in life economy. She further said that if mother who have never professional career, professional career and liberty is Imagery, their entire plan for marriage not for career and mother never against before. Only women are born the children and sky are limit for them. 

For Indian Women, she had strongly recommended that parental encouragement is very important. Women should negotiate the things which she doesn’t like. Let the marry children with professional class. Be a profession Identity for family and be service oriented. Men must allow his wife to decision making in family.

After attending this seminar, I am very thankful for Prof. Clark. She showed mirror for us, her point regarding women’s career is very strong and commendable. Yes, we are 21^st century girls and we should learn how to negotiate. We should have professional career, we can be a decision maker.

New Year Blog

Hi Frnds!!

Happy New Year!!

Let’s start our new year with happiness and Positivity.

            I tell you one story.

  
           There was a girl who was studying in Std. 8. She was very shy by nature and rarely talks with others. She had very few friends and no one take her seriously. During her school time, there was a Computer’s Lecture. Teacher was teaching about “Menu” (Computer Menu List) in his own style. Meantime teaching, he ordered that Bashful Girl to stand up and ask her, “What is Menu? Do u heard “Menu” in any other place?” 

            That teacher trying to teach about to “Computer MENU” with the use phrase “Hotel Menu”. Then he asked that girls, “When you go Hotel, which thing is help you to order your food?”

            That girl was answered very innocently, “I am not going to hotel still”. After listening this, whole class is laughing at that girl. She felt so embarrassed because she can’t go hotel at least one time. She is not aware about Hotel Menu and also Computer Menu, because of her financial condition.

Time passed, after completing her schooling, she started worked in the Cyber Café. In her work place, she had grown up her typing speed, can write in three language with same speed, she can do any type of Job Work, Computer work. She can do it easily and effectively. After that she started teaching Computer and became very lovable teacher to her student. Every Student likes to teach with her. 

            Apart from this, she has developed her cooking skill too. She can cook Indian dishes very well. She posts her dishes on Instagram and her dishes are appreciated by so many Chef, Hotel Manager, Food Lover, and Nutrition in Instagram.  

            Friends, that Girl was not another one but she is me. Yes friends this is happened with me. 

            I am that Girl, who is not going to any hotel still Std. 8, but my recipes are loved by my family and friends and also appreciated in social media too.  

            I am that Girl, who was not aware about Computer Menu. But now I am working last 9 years and take very smart work with computer and of course my Boss was very happy with my work.

            Friends I am not Good Chef and Not a Very successful Programmer but I am satisfied. I beat that laugh, which are constantly pointed out me.

         

              After all who were laughed at me that time. There are the people who asked to me help them in their project work, there are the people who are still going to hotel because they don’t know how to make delicious food.

            Moral of the story is that, don’t find inspirational story in other life. Find it in your own life. You don’t know how strong you are. You also have enough material to inspired people.

            “I believe that sometimes the bad times in our life put us on a direct path to the very best time in our life.”

Inglouris Nature

In this 21^st Century, all men and women worked together, women deprived all the places from men. Women works in Airline to Petrol Pump, Hotel to Small Shops. She is became CEO, Manager and Capable to handle her Business very successfully.

Notwithstanding, somewhere, sometime women have very disgraceful feeling.

I am Law Student and in college we learn about IPC (Indian Penal Code). In this Act there are some sections which are related to women and it’s so important in all the women’s life. Especially IPC Section 375, which is about Rape.

I see there are some girls who are not ready to listen and/or write about this particular section. When there are question asked about this in the exam. Some Girls are not ready to write about Rape in the answer sheet too. I asked her “why she is not written about Rape, in particular it’s related with her also”. And she gives me answer “I know it’s related to girls but I feel so Dirty and Blowzy.”

  After listening her answer I asked a question to myself, “Is she our future lawyer? If she is not ready to write about Rape in the one answer sheet, how can she help her Rape victim client in the court? How she argument in the Court?”

I assume that this things are happened in medical field and Girls Students also? But I think it is not their fault. We Girls, are usually not open-up about such a things. Girls are feeling very inglorious to talk about menstrual problem, pregnancy and sexual harassment. Nature of abash, Girls are not going to Hospital for their personal problems, they are not going to Police Station for harassment and don’t talk anything to their own mother too.

Girls have to open-up about this without any hesitation. If girls have enough knowledge to spread awareness, she must do that first. I am also one of these girls. I will not organized any event and tell girls about this. I will not go door to door to teach them about menstrual problem and I will not go to slum area to aware women about family planning.

But yes, whenever I see and meet the girls and women who need my help and I think she should be aware, I help them definitely and provide information whatever I know. 

After all, we are in 21^st Century. Isn’t We?