Life is like a "Candy Crush"

Happy New Year and Welcome in 2019...

Let's start this New Year with very Positive Thoughts and Positive Vibes.

Life is like a "Candy Crush" Game.

 I tell you how?

Very early stage I was very addicted to playing Candy Crush like most of the people. In this game there are lots of levels to complete the stages, and it's endless.

When u start playing this game, game itself teach you how to play game and gave you directions, this is an initial stage of our Childhood, our Parents teach  us how to walk, how to talk and how to eat.

Each and every level there is new game, some are easy and some are harder. In our life, every day is different. Some days are really of memorable and some are really boring and useless.

In the Game, every day u got Color Bomb, Lollipop Hammer, Candy Strips, and Jelly Fish which can make your game easier and you can enjoying the game. For me, every day we have sun, moon, flowers, air, rain, different seasons, different vegetables, fruits and so many things,  which are make our life easier.

In this game, when you connect the game with Facebook, you will be able to get extra prize, points, life and helping tools for solve your levels. In life, if u connect with the God, they gave us extra strength and various ways to help us to solve the problems and make our life easier.

Every level give us a new challenge, when we completed our entire episode, new episode waiting for us with new levels, same as, our life, there are so many episodes like childhood, school life, professional life, marriage life and retirement life. Each stage have its own benefits and problems, we completed one stage and entered in new stage, we faces problems and issues in every stage. Sometimes we enjoyed it and sometime we fed up from life.

In game, some level are easier but after a lots of efforts, I can't complete the level. But, the same way some levels are Super Harder and I pass that level in just one attempt. Isn't it amazing? I thought, this things are happening in our lives also. When we think it is very easy and it takes a lot of time and we think it is very hard and we solve it very easily and quickly.

In one session Sandip Maheshwari said,

"Life is not a Problems, to be Solved,

Life is Game to be Played."

Knowingly unknowingly, we all are playing the Game, and I think Life is a Candy Crush.

Rifle Training

Yeah.. Today I completed my Childhood Dream.

I completed Rifle Training.

This blog is about my experience. 

C. R. T. means Civilian Rifle Training. This concept of this training is that when our country is in trouble and Army and Policemen are not enough to handle the situation that time, Government can gave the Rifle to the civilian to save themselves and other citizens. (Wow!! This is really good concept. I love this. But i think this type of situation was happened in 1947 era, Nowadays our army is really very strong. They are capable in each and every situation). 

While taking the training we have do physical exercise every morning. I am not habitual to running and some other exercise. But its a part of training, we must follow it. 

In this 10 days course, i lived an army officer and policemen life. 

However physical exercise is only for 45 minutes, but its really tiring.
I run like an army.
I marched like them.
I did physical training like them.
I was firing like them.
Our coach were same as army men also. They scolded us very badly.
I had nightmare also. 

After having such a training, i started respecting all the Policemen and Army Men. They really have very hard training. 

But its really very good experience. In this 10 days i got so many contacts. Other trainee were really very good and kind hearted people. They make my journey memorable. 

Everyone were laughing at me when i said them, "i want to learn rifle." They said me you can't carry it. Yes they are right i can't carry a rifle. Its completely "Out of the Box" for me. If in fear i was not going to take training, i never ever understand how the experience is. You feel really very good and proud, when you do something beyond your strength. I proud on myself, i never give up. 

At last, i mesmerized my favorite line of "Fast and Furious" songs,

"i never fear death or dying,
I only fear never trying". 

Whatever the people said about me or laugh at me. But i ignore them and trying to do this. And did something different. 

Don't fear of fear, do something different.

Appreciation

Appreciation, Eulogies, Praise, Compliment are such a beautiful words!!! 

I really getting very good experiences about appreciation. Two words of appreciation can change somebody mood, two Stanger can be a friend just a few words of appreciation. By the good words and positive vibes people can remember you for a long time.

In this Digital World, all Netizens needs an appreciation. I also getting appreciation in the Instagram, and its really motivate me to develop my cooking hobby.  Some people say me, I do this because of likes and followers  and I don’t think so this is only reason.  One – one like and comment from people around the world can motivate me.  Appreciation of people can also enhance my hobby. If I didn’t get any type of comment, may be I never do this.

Another way, My Boss is really very expert in such a kind words of appreciation.  Sometime in office, I was fed up with doing all the work, I was getting tired and frustrated.  I never told anything to anyone. But whenever I was leaving the office my boss usually told me, “Thank you. Nobody can do this better than you” . J Two words of appreciation can change my mood and I going towards my home with very happy mood.

Do u appreciate Someone?

No!!!

So let’s start it.

Just say someone, “you look good today”. Trust me that person will be happy whole day and remember you.  Say ur sweeper, security guard or any other worker, “you are really doing very good job.” They were getting happy for sure.

Appreciation is totally free of cost. Just one like, one comment, two words of “thank you”, one line can make someone happy, refreshing and motivating also. I am sure you getting huge interest and in profit, you became everybody’s favorite also.

Element of Appreciation, is work really beautifully, People are getting happy and you too enjoy that happiness. If u don’t agree with my words. Just try it once. ;) 

I usually say everyone, Ur appreciation can motivate me. If this thing motivate me, so definitely helpful to other also.

Keep Appreciating ….  

Does Money can by Everything?

Does money can by everything?

Very Interesting question isn't it?

But I have an answer. 

I don't remember where but i read one story of this question. I mesmerized now and going to share you.

There is a guy.  He is may be a Industrial's son or Politician son don't know. That Rich Guy lived the lavish life. travel in very luxurious car and have Body Guards also. But he is very heavy weighted.

For this rich guy it is very easy to join the very equipped gym to loss his weight.

He went the gym in his luxury sport car. He went with his two Body Guards also. This Body Guard's height is approximately 6'2". They are take care of this fatty guy. They protect that guy and help that guy in the gym also. One of the body guard carry towel for him and other take water bottle for that guy. Every day and night this two body guards serve his master. 

For this rich guy he can buy everything from money. But money can't do its pushups in the gym. Means Rich guy cannot buy its pushups from anyone. He cant tell anyone not its bodyguards to pushups behalf of him. He has to pushups from its own.

So, moral of this story, you can't buy anything from money. It give you a status, respect, luxurious life and many more. Buy beyond this you have to work for it. 

Priceless Stone

One day a Young Boy asked his father “what is the value of his life?”

Instead of answering, the father told his son to take this rock and go sell it at a market.

If anybody asks the price, raise two fingers and don’t say anything. 

The boy went to the market, and woman asked,” How much is this rock? I want to put it in my garden.” 

The boy didn’t say anything and raised up two fingers and woman said, “2 dollars? I’ll take it.” 

And boy went home and told his father, a woman wants to buy this rock for 2 dollars. 

The father then said, “Son, I want you to take this rock to a museum, if anybody wants to buy it don’t say a words and just put up two fingers.” 

The Boy then went to the museum and man wanted to buy the rock, the boy didn’t say a word and put up 2 fingers and man said, “ $200?  I’ll take it.” 

The boy was shocked and went running home and told his father, “Father a man wants to buy this rock for $200.” 

His father then said, “Son, the last place I want you to take this rock is to a precious stone store, show it to the owner and don’t say a word and if he asks the price just put up two fingers.”

The son went to precious stone store, he showed the rock to owner, “Where did you find this stone? It is one of the rarest stones in the word, I must have it! How much would you sell it for?”. The boy put up two fingers. And man said I’ll take it for $200,000.

The boy not knowing what to say, ran home to his father, “Father, There’s a man that wants to buy stone for $200,000!” 

His father then said, “Son, Do you know the value of your life now? You see it doesn’t matter where you come from, where you were born. The color of your skin or how much money you were born into. It matters where you decide to place yourself, the people you surround yourself with and how you choose to carry yourself. You may have lived your whole life thinking that you were a $2 stone. You may have lived your whole life surrounded by people that saw your worth for only $2. But everybody has a diamonds inside of them. And we can choose to surround our self with people that see our value and see the diamonds inside of us.  We can choose to put our self in a market or put our self in a precious stone store. And you can also choose to see the value in other people. You can help other people see the diamond inside of them. Choose the people you surround yourself with wisely. That can make all the difference in your life.

I received this message via WhatsApp Video, which is said by Sean Buranahiran. He gives very beautiful life message and I liked this. So I spread this by blog also. 

You can be surrounded by people that only see your value of 2 dollars or you can choose to be around people that see your value at $200,000. 

And some people… will see you as priceless…

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એમ થોડા અમે કઈ મુંજાય ને મરી જ​વાના!!!"

જય વસાવડા એ લખેલી આ વાત સાથે આજ્ના નવા વર્ષનો આરંભ કરીએ...
ન​વું કંઇક કરવાની શરુઆત ચોક્ક્સ કરીએ, પણ તે કરતા પહેલા જે કામ હાથ માં લીધું છે, એ તો પહેલાં પુરું કરીએ... જે જ્વાબદારી માથે છે, એ તો પહેલાં પુરી કરીએ...

Life બહુ જ નાની છે Frnds!!! આમ ને આમ  Time ક્યાં જતો રહેશે કંઇ ખબર જ નહિં પડે. Time Waste કર્યા કરતાં કંઈક ને કંઈક ન​વું શીખતા રહીએ.  આપણે ઘણાં Resolution દર વર્ષે લઈએ છીએ, જે કદાચ બીજા જ દિવસે તોડી પણ દઇએ છીએ. આ વખતે નક્કી કરી લઈએ કે બસ કંઈક ન​વું શીખવું છે, પછી ભલે ને એ ટાઈ પહેરતાં જ શીખવાનું કેમ નાં હોય​?

 Life ને હસી મજાક થી ચોક્ક્સ જીવીએ, પણ એ મજાક જ બની ને રહી નાં જાય એનું ધ્યાન રાખજો. હવે આ દુનિયાં માં આવીયાં જ છીએ તો જીવન સાર્થક કરી ને જઈએ. દુનિયાં ને કંઇ ખાસ નહીં તો કમ સે કમ આપણી કમી વર્તાય કે કોઇને યાદ આવીએ એવું તો કરી શકીએ ને?

Life માં problems તો બધાને જ હોય છે. એ problems ને યાદ કર્યા કરતાં પોતાની જાતને નવું કંઈક શીખ​વામાં busy કરી દઈએ, એ કદાચ તમાંરાં problems નું solution તો નહિ હોય પણ તેનાથી  Tension તો ચોક્ક્સ ઓછું થશે ને?

તો બસ ન​વું શીખવાનું start કરી દો. જેમ મેં કર્યું. છ different subject પર blog લખ્યા પછી આ મારો સાતમો blog છે, જે આ ન​વાં વર્ષમાં ગુજરાતી માં લખ​વાની નાનક્ડી કોશિશ કરી છે.  જે મારાં માટે ખરેખર ન​વું છે. મારી આ ન​વું શીખવાની વાત અને blog કેવો લાગ્યો એ મને ચોક્ક્સ કે જો.

બસ આ સાથે જ મારી એટલે કે પલ્લવી તરફથી આપ સહુ ને નવાં વર્ષ નાં નુતન વષાૅઅભિનંદન અને સાલ મુબારક.

જય શ્રી કૃષ્ણ... 

Desirable Status

Dear Society, 

I know that you are very eager to know about someone life, especially for girls.

Why you don't live your own life?? Did God send you to this world to ask this type of silly question? 

Like,
Why are study too much?
For whom you study?
Why u don't lear cooking?
Why are you doing Job?
When you get married? 

Wow you are married now  when you give me good news? 

Oh ur first baby became 3 years old? Why  you don't plan for second baby? 

This is our life let us decided, how long we have to study? Which age we should get married? 

It is not a crime, if girls are going to be a independent. At least she became support system to her future husband. If we have a chance to put a professional label in our name, until we are not interested to put our initial as "Mrs." 

Please live your own life and let live others too. In world there are so many problems which are bigger than our status. 

If we, the girls are single (in your sense "Unmarried"), that's not ur problem, that's our problem. If we are happy or unhappy in future, that's our decision and we never regret for this. 

So please do your work, make a gossip behind our back, because this type of people never go ahead with ungodly thought. 

U have so much time to interpret someone's life, but we are busy to build our own empire. So let us do our work. If u can't support us at least don't discourage us.

Specially to my family members. I know how much you care about us. 

મસ્તીમાં મસ્તાની ને
મોજમાં રહેવાની.
થાય એ ભડાકા કરી લો.. 

New Year Blog

Hi Frnds!!

Happy New Year!!

Let’s start our new year with happiness and Positivity.

            I tell you one story.

  
           There was a girl who was studying in Std. 8. She was very shy by nature and rarely talks with others. She had very few friends and no one take her seriously. During her school time, there was a Computer’s Lecture. Teacher was teaching about “Menu” (Computer Menu List) in his own style. Meantime teaching, he ordered that Bashful Girl to stand up and ask her, “What is Menu? Do u heard “Menu” in any other place?” 

            That teacher trying to teach about to “Computer MENU” with the use phrase “Hotel Menu”. Then he asked that girls, “When you go Hotel, which thing is help you to order your food?”

            That girl was answered very innocently, “I am not going to hotel still”. After listening this, whole class is laughing at that girl. She felt so embarrassed because she can’t go hotel at least one time. She is not aware about Hotel Menu and also Computer Menu, because of her financial condition.

Time passed, after completing her schooling, she started worked in the Cyber Café. In her work place, she had grown up her typing speed, can write in three language with same speed, she can do any type of Job Work, Computer work. She can do it easily and effectively. After that she started teaching Computer and became very lovable teacher to her student. Every Student likes to teach with her. 

            Apart from this, she has developed her cooking skill too. She can cook Indian dishes very well. She posts her dishes on Instagram and her dishes are appreciated by so many Chef, Hotel Manager, Food Lover, and Nutrition in Instagram.  

            Friends, that Girl was not another one but she is me. Yes friends this is happened with me. 

            I am that Girl, who is not going to any hotel still Std. 8, but my recipes are loved by my family and friends and also appreciated in social media too.  

            I am that Girl, who was not aware about Computer Menu. But now I am working last 9 years and take very smart work with computer and of course my Boss was very happy with my work.

            Friends I am not Good Chef and Not a Very successful Programmer but I am satisfied. I beat that laugh, which are constantly pointed out me.

         

              After all who were laughed at me that time. There are the people who asked to me help them in their project work, there are the people who are still going to hotel because they don’t know how to make delicious food.

            Moral of the story is that, don’t find inspirational story in other life. Find it in your own life. You don’t know how strong you are. You also have enough material to inspired people.

            “I believe that sometimes the bad times in our life put us on a direct path to the very best time in our life.”